> There are no sides...now here are the sides...
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The existence of a BIP necessarily creates sides.
That doesn't mean either side is monolithic.
It is possible to oppose spam while also opposing a particular proposed solution to spam.
> it's incredibly stupid to judge BIP-110 because people you dislike are yelling
It's not just random people yelling. It's the leading proponents. Seems like a red flag. And I didn't even dislike them prior to the yelling.
> If you want civilized discourse you're really just asking for centralized decision making.
If you believe this, I think you have failed to understand bitcoin (and free markets, and the entire history of western civilization).