I find it hard to keep using NOSTR because it's performance is shite, 2-10x longer load times than X and worse UI. I keep coming back because I believe in it, but as a user it's 🫠
Yeah to solve this i created some radical optimisations on top of nostr, it falls back to standards support, but provides a bunch of indexes and endpoints which are radically faster.
http://github.com/divinevideo/divine-funnelcake/